If at any point you feel discomfort, make sure you stop and communicate with your partner. Anyway, grab some condoms, stock up on lube (your residing dorm Resource Center has tons of both) and have at it! Also, make sure communication happens before trying these new positions, as some people may not be as comfortable with new positions - and that is totally okay. There are two pivotal questions in a relationship from which you cannot return: “So what are we?” and “So how many people have you slept with?” The first question is an unavoidable inquiry when one of the participating parties of the dating ritual wants to get right to the point. Asking “So what are we?” is like ripping off a band aid: the questioning and answering is quick and possibly painless if there is pain, at least it passes swiftly. No love lost right?īut the latter of the two questions can be a slow-ticking time bomb. This question has the potential to lay a foundation of insecurities that will underlay relationship issues to come if one or both of the parties cannot handle the truth.
